Maybe the only authentic British Matriarch with her own inimitable elegance, style and iconic status. Archived at the Bishopsgate Institute.
As host of my own events over the last 31 years as a promoter, I have my own unique take on how things are done, and I do it with an aplomb. Much copied, I'm a trend setter - a true British Matriarch.
The deal is, in matriarchy a woman hold positions of leadership and authority, and the society is organised around her decisions, needs and vision. This can be easily understood by her history on the BDSM/fetish scene - the chronology.
The word matriarchy means female leadership and nurturing principles. In our world this can mean full-time Female Led Relationship (FLR), or session-orientated play, or a part-time lifestyle approach.
British Matriarch - 37 years on the scene
So, what does society look like when women take the strong leadership roles? Look to my event Queen Bee Society drinks, as it gives you an idea of all the different types of women that exist in the UK. Women do not only lead to prove themselves, but they put themselves forward to get the best out of the men under their commend. Raising the quality and standards of servitude.
I’d like to think that my approach to matriarchal Fem Domme leans more towards research and experimentation, and some firm beliefs. I believe that thought active personal education, rather than merely copying another mistress, you find your own personal style of High Protocol Fem Domme. This is certainly how I teach my Mistress Workshop, giving women the tools to make their own decisions and not telling them what to do!
Research is the key. Personal experience and observation may play a crucial role in leadership progress. Female control means different things to people, dependent on the country, age or social class you were born into. Ordering someone around is the easy option, learning how to lead or control or influence cleverly or unscrupulously. Having your own personal expressions, rather than one way of conducting any given situation. One's own nature and nurture massively plays a role in how to handle or control a slave.
High protocol slave positions!
British Matriarch I'm your leader
Thirty seven years on in the BDSM/fetish scene means that I have carved my own path, never once looking to others to copy them, but forging my own path. Still to this day, my monthly Mistress Workshop is unique.
Rubber Cult was ground breaking (now much copied). No one had done anything like that before. I stood in my knowledge and convictions, that what I was doing would work, and it was something I was passionate about, not just a money grab.
Women are stronger than men, in many ways and in most ways, that will count in the future. Is then a dominatrix, the strongest of them all?
Women may have been seen as the weaker sex for a long time, then came the era of the Fem Domme!
Strong leadership
All men are not natural leaders, so to be in the presence of powerful women will reduce their stress. These men will understand their roles is to support strong female leadership, inside and outside the households.
As a British Matriarch I take leadership seriously
If you are a man reading this, learn how to live or serve empowered women, and try supporting their events, or help take charge, and command with confidence. Your way! As a British Matriarch I take leadership seriously. Never Machiavellian, always a giver, wanting to facilitate folks to have a good time.
Testimonial: "Leading with warmth and selflessness, always putting others’ happiness first. She's the type who lights up a room with her genuine kindness, often seen organising gatherings or checking in on friends to ensure everyone’s enjoying themselves. Never scheming or manipulating, there’s no hidden agenda in her actions. Instead, she gives freely, whether it’s her time, resources, or emotional support, always eager to help others feel included and uplifted. Her sincerity makes her a trusted and beloved presence in any group".
"Never scheming or manipulating"
In conclusion, when I decided to step back from club promoting, it was the best thing I have ever done. Don't get me wrong, being a fetish club promoter for 22 years (every month) was a total joy. I'm a natural organiser, methodical, creative...I believe there are no problems, only solutions! I've had various co-hosts over the years, but I prefer to do things on my own. No one works as hard as I do, and it can be annoying.
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