Learning old school skills means you are working from the ground up and not just skimming the surface of such an in-depth subject as BDSM.
My Mistress Workshop dates for the first quarter of 2025 are: January 11th, February 15th and March 22nd. Come along and learn some old school skills.
What is BDSM, with regard to earring money out of a session, or the practice of Fem Dom? Is it just telling boys what you want? Or getting what your way? Maybe the relatively easy practices of kicking balls, face-sitting, foot worship, boot and shoe fetish? Maybe you learn from the school of Twitter? So, what else have you seen ladies do on there?
Monkey seen, monkey do!
Twitter is where most ladies learn how to be a pro domme, a mistress, dominatrix, lady who performs BDSM practices. Where did you learn? Are you skilled only 10%? Or somewhere between 50% or 90%? Or do you have no idea?
Time and Effort: Learning BDSM comprehensively does require a significant investment of time and effort, which not everyone might be willing, or able, to commit to. Is it worth it? Yes! Read these testimonials.
Skilled: Some might not realise it's so in-depth, as they found it on Twitter and thought that it looked easy. It is often an intense exploration of kink/fetish/BDSM that means you are accomplished. A deep-dive into all aspects of BDSM will serve you well.
Customisation: With a solid foundation, practitioners can tailor their experiences more creatively and safely. Giving the clients to real authentic experience rather than winging it...a term I have heard others use many times.
Creativity: This might involve creating scenes that are not just about physical sensations but are emotionally and psychologically fulfilling... delivering with theatricality, joie de viva, charisma...etc. Making a journey from their relayed wants, needs and desires.
Understanding the history of BDSM is important for several reasons
Cultural: BDSM practices have roots in various cultural and historical contexts. Knowing this history helps in the appreciation of how the scene has evolved. Partially it has changed because of changes in societal norms. For instance, elements of BDSM can be traced back to ancient civilisations...medieval cruelty, Victorian outwards-facing-reserve, and punishment, each period adding its own flavour influenced by the culture of the time.
New for me in 2025 is a monthly event project
Partnering up with performance artist and MC, Matt Skully. It's called Salon Kinky and will address most of the themes on this page...with a large portion of entertainment. First event January 9th at a new venue on Hackney Road London E2...only opened recently.
Art and Literature: has influenced my BDSM journey, partly due to the fact that there was not other way to immersed myself into the subject matter many years ago. There was no internet, so I was very much influenced by, art, literature, and popular culture. Knowing this history can enrich one's appreciation of art and literature that touches on themes of power, dominance, submission, and pain, from classical works to contemporary media.
History: The history of BDSM didn't start when you arrived on the scene, but perhaps it is a product, and a framework of those that came before you. Whilst you might think you know best, perhaps it's only a reflection of this time in society, the psychological of the masses, and the cultural impacts over time. This only comes when you have lived a major part of it! This historical insight enhances both the personal practice and the broader societal acceptance and integration of BDSM.
Time to get the diary out and start planning
In conclusion, If you're considering diving deeper into kink/fetish/BDSM, my educational resources; Mistress Workshop, is the O.G. in the subject and has been for 14 years now. Only I have a regular monthly group workshop, offering ongoing mentorship from myself as an experienced practitioners of the arts of BDSM. Remember, like any other skill, continuous learning and practice with respect for all involved are key.
Furthermore, once you have taken my Mistress Workshop, I am forever your mentor. When you learn old school skills from me you can always reach out to at anytime for advise and help.
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