Day in the life of a dominatrix usually starts at 6am. Leave the house in London E2 at 6.30 and walk 30 minutes to the hotel pool.
Membership at Rena Pool and Spa is my preferred choice, as hotels are always clean. I swim for 30 minutes, then steam, sauna and Jacuzzi. On the way home I pick up provisions at one of two whole foods shops.
Coffee starts the day. No breakfast. Social first, with posts and photos on all of my businesses; professional dominatrix, event promoter for Rubber Cult, and educator Mistress Workshop. Part of my M.O. (modus operandi) is to help other mistresses/friends with their events, businesses, and organise new mistresses to get some experience.
Day in the life, starts early!
Examples of this are; Mistress Tess has two events I help to promote Gynarchy Gathering and Gynarchy Governance. Plus my friend Tim Woodward has lots of events, but I help him with The Play Party. This morning we confirmed details for the next one on April 11th and I made three posters which I sent to him.
Food preparation first thing, as I only eat fresh everyday, and no packet food. Today the post office, pharmacy, Amazon delivery and lots of texts with various friends I'm collaborating with, or visiting.
The life of a dominatrix can involve travel
Paris trip coming up means that there are last minute trip details to organise. I only ever travel for fun and never travel to work! Mistress Mika messaged me and asked to interview me for her YouTube channel. Messages from three of my workshop ladies who are coming to the CBT Workshop on the 29th.
Double domme experience is something I offer to ladies that have attended one of my monthly Mistress Workshop. Or a week-day one-to-one workshop. I have a few clients who enjoy the experience of a double, which gives me the opportunity to show a new lady the ropes.
Blog writing is something I do regularly and they can all easily be found within these pages. Over the last nine years I have written 350. That's an average of 38 a year. Most ladies struggle to do one a month, and for many it's zero!
A dominatrix has many tasks to fulfil
Promotion, administration, cleaning, supplies, repairs, preparation and planning are just a few of the things no one seems to think about. I have my own very, very well equipped PRIVATE central London E2 play studio. My maid Belle takes care of most of the deep cleaning, however, it must all be kept tidy and presentable on a daily basis. Towels washed and disposables well stocked.
In no particular order; a local client who is a delight and only lives a stones throw away, enjoys nipple play, and a cuppa and chat after. Another client I've known for approximately 18 years enjoys the humiliation of a nappy, spanking and foot worship. Never met any gentlemen pervert that has a fetish for female attire (Autogynephilia) that I didn't like. I have a separate sissy boudoir and 'sexy' pegging studio also.
Filming dominatrix too
Filming tomorrow, as it is something that my 'best boy' Mr Brown and I enjoy and have perfected over the years. He always marvels at my inventive pegging positions. Remarking that I have come up with, yet another new position, location, angle, scenario!
We are but a reflection of the way we live, our environment and home. Style and finesse. I love fresh flowers and always have them in my sitting room, plus a well stocked 1950's home bar. Tea is always offered after a session, unless it's later in the day and a tipple will be offered.
This is a profession I'm very skilled at, and very proud to say I do with aplomb! All sessions are discrete, private and not posted all over social media. I no longer need to promote myself as my reputation goes before me. I'm archived in the Bishopsgate Institute forever! Plus in 2024 I received a Lifetime Achievement Award from the UK Fetish Awards.
The Life Of A Dominatrix rewarded!
First and foremost I'm a fetishist, my love for leather, latex, shiny, skintight, stockings, fetish heels, medical paraphernalia comes first. It has made me who I am! I've always loved clothes and style. Then an educator and teaching feels me with joy, passing on my knowledge to the next generation. Finally, I am a dominatrix. Some might call me a SW, I prefer to say exactly what I do...a femme domme. A woman who sits in her own power.
In conclusion, most dommes are never sat by their phone twiddling their thumbs, waiting for it to ring. There is more to it than anyone thinks about. We have to cover the cost of not working whilst on holiday, or sick. Being self employed means recording and covering all aspect of legal requirements as savings.
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