Social media is not a place I care to post photographs of my creative BDSM sessions, that are intimate, explicit and sometime vulgar (in a good way). So I have decided you describe my playtimes.
Playtime for me is varied and creative in all forms of BDSM, in session. Just because I don't post explicit photos doesn't mean I don't do the play. I'm very, very well versed in 90% of the
Just a few creative BDSM sessions
Exploring creative BDSM practices involves a blend of psychological play, physical interactions, and sensory experiences, all underpinned by mutual consent, trust, and safety. Here's a look at some innovative or less commonly highlighted practices within BDSM:
Memory Play: This psychological play can be deeply immersive, focusing on mental rather than physical constraints. Compliance is vitally important. Let's start by changing your default setting...catch them unawares.
Body Writing: Using temporary markers (or permanent), paint, or even food items to write or draw on the body. This can be done for instance about marking areas for impact play or highlighting an imprint that will disappear. Highly sensual or symbolic within a BDSM dynamic.
Predicament Bondage: Setting up scenarios where the submissive has to choose between two or more uncomfortable or challenging positions, often involving a choice where compliance with one demand leads to discomfort from another angle. This tests mental endurance and decision-making under pressure. A humbler is one of the easiest (no creativity) forms of predicament bondage. The creativity is when I got him to make those stabilisers!
Creative, as I invented ASMR/BDSM
Sensory ASMR/BDSM: A type of play I invented. Employing blindfolds, earplugs, earphones, darkness, or beautiful lights, whispering, smells, and the touch of many different items, making other senses more acute.
Role-Play: While role-play is not so common as it used to be, creating fully immersive scenarios based session (like science fiction, fantasy, or household settings), where the BDSM elements are woven into the narrative, is a lot of fun.
Technology: Remote-controlled devices (vibrators, electro-stimulation) from a distance, great fun at dinner or shopping. Or integrating a visual light device (ask me) for more immersive scenarios or even live streams where consenting audiences can influence the scene.
Creativity is so natural for me
Artful Shibari: Or simple rope play, if you like. Treating the act of tying as a form of aesthetics (with flowers). Or adding lit candles (must have a fire extinguisher if playing with fire), feathers, bells, pin tacks etc. Sensations dont always need to be about pleasure or pain.
N.B. Chain and cable ties is better for indoors. This below was outdoors, so I sacrificed a rope!
Toys and equipment are not needed for creative BDSM sessions
Mind Games: I like to call them practical jokes. Incorporating puzzles to solve that could either alleviate or intensify the dynamics. Testing their wit and will under pressure.
Exploring these practices means you should never forget the foundation which remains the same: consent, clear communication, safety measures (like safe words or signals), and aftercare. Creativity in BDSM often thrives on the edge boundaries so be sure you know what you are doing. And what can go wrong!
In conclusion, specialist knowledge or training for certain practices can be conducted in my central London E2, very well-equipped playspace. Always, the key is to ensure that all activities are entered into with full consent, understanding, and respect for all participants' boundaries and well-being.
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